Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Our beautiful brave daughter has gone, she died at 1.45am on 2nd August 2008. We had gone into hospital on Thursday night at very short notice for her operation the next day. The repair to her valve was successful but her heart function was poor afterwards and although she fought hard to stay with us her heart was just not strong enough. They did everything possible to save her. Simon and I were both with her when she passed away and she was very peaceful. The morning of her operation she was all smiles and laughter and that is how we will remember her. She was the perfect daughter and brought us unimagined happiness. The above photo is our favourite and taken on her birthday it captures her sense of fun and joy perfectly. We can't quite believe we will never see her again and we want her back more that anything. I will end this blog with Joshua's words " She was so special to me , I loved her so much"

39 comments:

Anonymous said...

Kay,
I have left you a message on Babycentre June board but had to leave one here too. I am so so sorry that Kaitlyn has been taken from you and nothing I say can ease the pain you will all be feeling now.

You had a very special girl and I am sure she touched so many hearts. Hopefully all the happy memories will help you through this tough time.

Rest in Peace Kaitlyn.

Donnaxxxxxx

sue said...

Kay, I only just read your sad news on the BCF.
Such a beautiful little girl, my thoughts are with you and your family.

Anonymous said...

Kay i wanted you to know that im think of you and your family x Kaitlyn is such a beautiful happy little girl.im so sorry i wish things could be different.sending all the love and strength to you all lots of love nicky x x x x

Anya and Lisa said...

Thinking of you Kay, Simon and Joshua, your blog is lovely, full of beautiful Kaitlyn smiles. My heart is breaking for you
Anyax

Posh Totty said...

My heart breaks for you and I am thinking of you all, I am so so sorry.

DafadDdoniol said...

sending so much love your way, wishing things were different

Karen xx

CalmDownDear said...

I'm so, so, sorry Kay.

Kaitlyn was so special. Thanks for sharing her.

Jackie XX

Anonymous said...

Kay, I left a post on BC June but just wanted to say again how sorry I am that Kaitlyn has gone.

A beautiful and very brave little girl. You must be so very proud of her.

Lots of love to you all,

Claire xx

kaybee352000 said...

Kay im only just online and had to come straight away to tell you how sorry i am about Kaitlyn i just wish there was something more i could say. Another precious HLHS angel, please take care of each other.

Fly high little one you will never be forgotten

Kymm and Sammy xxxx

Anonymous said...

Dear Kay, My family and I are thinking of you and your family today - the day you lay your precious angel to rest.

Rest in peace gorgeous baby girl.
Bernadette, Peter, Jack & Finlay

Anonymous said...

Kay and family,
I am thinking of you all today, the day you lay this very special little angel to rest!
Its days like this what make you grateful for what you have in your own lives. Thank you for sharing all your memories and good and bad times with us!
Ellen and Jess (BC June 06) xxxx

Anonymous said...

Kay,
I'm so sorry to hear your news. I can't believe it. I haven't been on BC for a while. Our thoughts are with you & your family at this terrible time.

Karen, Stuart & Holly.

Anonymous said...

Kay, I am utterly stunned and devastated, and so so sorry. She was beyond beautiful, my heart is breaking for you and I wish there was something I could say or do to help you all through this.

God bless you, little sweetheart xxx

All our love,
Caroline and family
(Bymbho, ex-BC girl)

Anonymous said...

Kay,
I am so sorry that you had such a short time with Kaitlyn.
Remember all those wonderful times that you had with her and hopefully they will help to make the sad times a little easier.
You have got such beautiful photos of her and I think that this blog is a wonderful tribute to such a beautiful girl.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Take care.
Lynn

Anonymous said...

May little Kaitlyn rest in peace knowing she touched the hearts of many. I'm so sorry for your loss xxx

Anonymous said...

Oh Kay
Im so so sorry to hear this news! She was such a beautiful little girl and brought joy to your life, god bless and watch her.

All my love
Phil (Leahbird AK)

Anonymous said...

My heart breaks for you. May Kaitlyn rest in peace and her spirit live on in all the lives she has touched.

Much love,

Ellie H
xxxxxxx
(AK)

Fiona said...

Kay,
Im so sorry for your loss. May little Kaitlyn rest in peace.
Thinking of you and your family at this very difficult time

Rest in Peace Kaitlyn

Fiona25
(AK)

xxxxxx

Anonymous said...

Words cant say how I am sorry to here the news. Thinking of ypu all. May Kaitlyn look down forever and guide you all in in all that you do.

Rest in peace little one.

Hiann (AK)

Jewel said...

My heart truly breaks for you. I'm so so sorry to hear your sad news. This is an absolutely beautiful blog and shows Kaitlyn as a beautiful happy little girl.

God bless you all.

Topaze x (AK)

Anonymous said...

(((((((((((((((((Kay and Family))))))))))))))))))))))
I am so devastated to hear this news, I have known you since we were pregnant on June 06 and followed Kaitlyns story from then on.
Nothing i can ever say will ease the pain of your loss.
Kaitlyn was an amazing and strong little girl and i certainly will never forget her.
Thinking of you all at this sad time
Hope, Rich, Myron and Josiah xxxx

Anonymous said...

Kay and family,
Im so sorry to hear about Kaitlyn, she was a beautiful brave little girl. I can only imagine what you are going through. You are all in my thoughtsxxxxx

all my love
Rachael (rachaelmae ak)

Anonymous said...

I am so unimaginably sorry for the loss of beautiful Kaitlyn.

There is nothing I can say to help but I am thinking of you.

Bev x x x x x (from AK)

Anonymous said...

Hi Kay,
So sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you and your family, Dymphna xx
Dymp/Dara AK

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear of the devasting news that Kaitlyn has been taken from you.

I can only imagine how you feel and my heart breaks for you.

Sending much love to all of you.

Bear/Claire AK

Anonymous said...

Kay,

I just heard the sad news a few minutes ago. I have been away for 2months with barely any internet access. I am so heartbroken for your loss, I hope you and your family are finding the strength to cope. This blog is a wonderful way to remember her short but happy and love filled life.

Lots of hugs and love to you and your family.

Big big hugs and you know where to find me and the other ak'ers if you want to talk.

Susie (noababy)

Anonymous said...

Such a sad loss, my thoughts are with you and your family xxxx
vickiepower (AK)

Anonymous said...

To Kay & family, so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful little girl.
All my love
Lesley. xxx
(Teilosmummy AK).

Anonymous said...

Kay, I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss. May your beautiful Kaitlyn rest in peace and always look down on you. My thoughts are with you and your family always. xxxxx
Louise (lilmuppetlou - AK)

Anonymous said...

Dear kay and family xxxxxxxxxxx
Im so so sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts are with you all always xxxx

rest in peace beautiful girl xxxx

All my love Lauren xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
(lottiesmummy ak)

Anonymous said...

kay and family

I am so sorry for your loss, Kaitlyn was a beautiful girl.

Sending lots of love.

Cheryl (MrsHarvey on AK)
xxxxxx

Anonymous said...

Kay and family, I have been on here to read all about your brave and special little girl. I am so sorry she isn't with you now but she will live on in the hearts of so many people. Thank you for sharing her with us. I feel privelaged to have 'got to know her'. I will ome back later when I have the house to myself. I have only been here 5 mins and the tears wont stop. Michelle (LAL)

Anonymous said...

Kay and Family,
I have only just read the news and a i am so sorry to hear about Kaitlyn.
She was a wonderful little girl and touched so many lives.

My thoughts are with you all.
Rest in peace little one.

mrs_ping (AK)

Anonymous said...

Hi Kay,

I have been thinking about you and was wondering how you were doing.
I would really like to send you a private email, but do not have your email and don't want to leave mine on here. If you have the time or the heart and want to send me a pm through ak, I would be really happy.

Lots of hugs and concern,
Susie (noababy)

Anonymous said...

I have just read your blog about your gorgeous daughter Kaitlyn. I cannot imagine the pain that you all must feel at this time.

She was a beautiful little girl and her story has touched me deeply as I too have a Kaitlyn who is 2.

I hope all the happy times and smiles you shared will help you all to get through this time.

Rest in peace little angel.

Jen x x x x

Anonymous said...

Kaitlyn was a very, very beautiful girl. I am so, so sorry to read that she is no longer with you. I cannot imagine how hard it must be for you not to have her with you.

Reading your blog, it's so clear what wonderful parents you are, and what a super big brother she has in Josh. She fought and fought and fought and was so brave.

Rest in peace sweet baby girl.

xxx

Anonymous said...

Kay, I cannot even begin to imagine what you and your family must be going through. I think of you often. Kaitlyn has taught me to take an extra breath before I get cross or annoyed with my own little girl who's only 2 months older than your beautiful girl. May she rest in peace and look after you, her daddy and big brother from up there where all the so loved angel children are. Many hugs, Desirée

Carly Marie said...

Your daughter was so beautiful,

Thank you for sharing her life with everyone. I look forward to writing her name in the sand for you.

Much Love and Hope for your future,

Love Carly x

Laura said...

I came over from Carly's blog - I am so terribly sorry for your loss!